See It Clearly. Understand It. Decide What's Next.
A different way to understand what's really happening in your relationships.
Most relationship assessments focus primarily on the other person, search the past for explanations, or ask you to apply psychological labels. The McMillan Method Clarity Tools™ take a different approach.
These science-based tools help you step outside the emotion of a situation and examine the relationship as it exists now, from both directions: what the other person is contributing, what you're contributing, how those behaviors interact, and what the evidence suggests.
Private. Self-scored. Reusable. No personal information collected.
SEE. UNDERSTAND. ADDRESS.
From clarity to insight to action.
SEE
Identify what's actually happening.
UNDERSTAND
Discover what the patterns may mean.
ADDRESS
Use what you've learned to decide what comes next.
The Clarity Tools help you see. The Score Guides help you understand. The Insight Editions offer key information that explains it all.
The McMillan Method helps you address what you discover.
For relationships you value but want to understand more clearly. Examine balance, reciprocity and the patterns shaping your connection.
Which Clarity Tool Is Right for You?
Different relationships raise different questions. Choose the tool designed to help you examine yours.
When something feels wrong but you can't quite identify why. Examine patterns that may be undermining your wellbeing or signaling greater risk.
For challenging or confusing workplace relationships. Examine patterns affecting trust, communication, performance and effectiveness.
Unmasking the Abuser™ Clarity Assessments
When You’re Concerned About Manipulation or Control
Four private assessments, one for each stage: early in a relationship, inside it, after it ends, and from the outside looking in. Built on more than 25 years of research, including 4,500+ interviews with survivors and 700+ in-depth interviews with abusers.
New relationship
Early Detection
Welcome the possibility of love without losing sight of yourself. Recognize early warning signs while it’s still easy to slow down.
Start HereCurrent relationship
Inside the Relationship
For when so much of your day is organized around preventing your partner’s reaction. See the pattern clearly and decide what comes next.
Start HereFor survivors
After the Relationship
The relationship has ended, so why does it still feel as if you’re living by its rules? Understand what remains and reclaim your own judgment.
Start HereFriends, family & professionals
Outside the Relationship
You’re worried about someone and want to help without making things harder for them. Know what you’re seeing and how to respond with care.
Start HerePrivate and safe to use. Nothing is submitted and no personal information is collected. Complete it when and where it feels safe for you, and come back to it whenever you need to.
Your Score Is Only the Beginning
The Clarity Tool helps you identify the patterns. The Score Guide helps you understand what those patterns may mean and what to do with what you've discovered.
Go beyond the number. Understand the evidence behind your score, identify what deserves your attention, and get practical guidance on what to do next.
Understand your results and what they reveal about the balance and patterns in your relationship.
Understand the patterns behind your score, the level of concern, and what deserves attention.
Interpret your workplace results and identify practical options for what to do next.
Evaluate workplace patterns from an HR perspective and support informed response and documentation.
Clarity Should Lead Somewhere
Start with your Score Guide.
Each Score Guide provides practical guidance and next steps based on what your results reveal.
Go deeper.
Build your knowledge through The McMillan Method webinars, online courses, seminars and workshops.
Get more individualized support.
For people or organizations who need more in-depth assistance, individual consulting and tailored professional support are also available.
You don't have to stop at understanding. The goal is to help you turn clarity into informed, decisive action.
A Quick Reference Guide to Abusers’ Strategies and Tactics
The selection ploys and control tactics abusers rely on, explained clearly so you can recognize the pattern early. The perfect companion to the Unmasking the Abuser™ Clarity Assessments.
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With This Ring™ Commitment Readiness Clarity Tool
Thinking about getting engaged or married? Before you make one of life’s biggest commitments, take an honest look at your readiness, how well you’re aligned and your long-term potential. A matching Score Guide will help you understand your results and decide what comes next, together.
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