Relationship Alignment Assessment™
Is this relationship as healthy and mutual as it should be?
Get a clearer picture of where a romantic, family or friendship relationship really stands, understand what you’re seeing, and get guidance on what to do next.
Best value: the Complete Clarity System ($119) includes this tool, the Score Guide and the Insight Edition, so you can see what’s happening, understand what it means and know what to do next. You save $28.
This is for you if:
You give more than you get, and you’re starting to notice
You can’t tell whether a rough patch is normal or a pattern
You want an honest answer before you decide what to do
A few of the statements you’ll respond to about one relationship:
I usually consider this person's needs when making important decisions.
This person celebrates my successes without competing, minimizing, or redirecting attention.
This person makes me feel emotionally safe.
What buyers say
“I downloaded the Love Me Love Me Not tool to check out a friendship I’ve been uncertain about for a while. I was absolutely blown away by the results! This is such a great tool… I’m also reassured by the guidance given at the end for those who get a score that’s less than optimal, suggesting they might want to seek help from a therapist or counsellor… I think it’s a terrific guide for people wondering about the nature of a relationship.”
— C.S., Clinical Psychologist · Verified purchaser
What you receive
A private, interactive tool, delivered instantly and yours to keep
About 10–15 minutes to complete
Your results immediately: strengths, imbalances and areas that deserve your attention
Guidance on next steps, including when talking to a counselor or therapist may help
Reusable anytime, so you can compare as things change
Works on any device: complete it on your phone, tablet or computer. It opens in your web browser, and your answers never leave your device.
Private purchase. Your card statement will show “The McMillan Method.” You can use any email address for your receipt and download.
Created by Dr. Dina McMillan, Ph.D., Stanford-trained social psychologist, TEDx speaker (nearly 500,000 views) and author, drawing on 25+ years of relationship research.
Questions
Will anyone see my answers? No. Your answers stay on your device and are never sent to us.
Is this a diagnosis? No. It’s an educational decision-support tool, not therapy or a diagnosis.
Can I use it more than once? Yes. Retake it whenever things change.
Want to understand what your score means? Add the Love Me, Love Me Not?™ Score Guide ($39), or choose the Complete Clarity System ($119) and save $28.
Relationship Alignment Assessment™
Is this relationship as healthy and mutual as it should be?
Get a clearer picture of where a romantic, family or friendship relationship really stands, understand what you’re seeing, and get guidance on what to do next.
Best value: the Complete Clarity System ($119) includes this tool, the Score Guide and the Insight Edition, so you can see what’s happening, understand what it means and know what to do next. You save $28.
This is for you if:
You give more than you get, and you’re starting to notice
You can’t tell whether a rough patch is normal or a pattern
You want an honest answer before you decide what to do
A few of the statements you’ll respond to about one relationship:
I usually consider this person's needs when making important decisions.
This person celebrates my successes without competing, minimizing, or redirecting attention.
This person makes me feel emotionally safe.
What buyers say
“I downloaded the Love Me Love Me Not tool to check out a friendship I’ve been uncertain about for a while. I was absolutely blown away by the results! This is such a great tool… I’m also reassured by the guidance given at the end for those who get a score that’s less than optimal, suggesting they might want to seek help from a therapist or counsellor… I think it’s a terrific guide for people wondering about the nature of a relationship.”
— C.S., Clinical Psychologist · Verified purchaser
What you receive
A private, interactive tool, delivered instantly and yours to keep
About 10–15 minutes to complete
Your results immediately: strengths, imbalances and areas that deserve your attention
Guidance on next steps, including when talking to a counselor or therapist may help
Reusable anytime, so you can compare as things change
Works on any device: complete it on your phone, tablet or computer. It opens in your web browser, and your answers never leave your device.
Private purchase. Your card statement will show “The McMillan Method.” You can use any email address for your receipt and download.
Created by Dr. Dina McMillan, Ph.D., Stanford-trained social psychologist, TEDx speaker (nearly 500,000 views) and author, drawing on 25+ years of relationship research.
Questions
Will anyone see my answers? No. Your answers stay on your device and are never sent to us.
Is this a diagnosis? No. It’s an educational decision-support tool, not therapy or a diagnosis.
Can I use it more than once? Yes. Retake it whenever things change.
Want to understand what your score means? Add the Love Me, Love Me Not?™ Score Guide ($39), or choose the Complete Clarity System ($119) and save $28.
