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Whether you’re questioning a relationship, struggling with a workplace situation, or trying to understand troubling behavior, The McMillan Method helps you see what’s really happening, understand why, and know what to do next.
Best value: each Complete Clarity System brings together a Clarity Tool, its Score Guide and its Insight Edition, and saves you $28 or more. Prefer to start small? Every tool is also sold on its own.
See clearly. Choose wisely. Live better.
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What People Are Saying About the Clarity Tools
People who've used the Clarity Tools describe what they discovered — and what changed once they could see their situation more clearly.
“I knew the relationship had serious problems. I didn't know it was this bad — or that there was something I could do.”
— Clarity Tool user
“I'd noticed a change but wasn't sure what it was, or who was causing the friction. Now I do. And now that I see it, it's pretty obvious.”
— Clarity Tool user
“I expected the test to take longer and be more intrusive. It was quick, and I didn't feel pressured. Now that I know what's wrong, I can consider whether it's something I can — or want to — fix.”
— Clarity Tool user
“This tool helped me close the door on a relationship that didn't work. I realized how much effort I'd wasted on something that wasn't going anywhere.”
— Clarity Tool user
“I've known this person for a long time. I thought he was a close friend. It was interesting to find out I was wrong. I've been carrying the relationship for a while.”
— Clarity Tool user
Coming Soon: With This Ring™ Commitment Readiness Clarity Tool
Thinking about getting engaged or married? Before you make one of life’s biggest commitments, take an honest look at your readiness, how well you’re aligned and your long-term potential. A matching Score Guide will help you understand your results and decide what comes next, together.
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
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Each Clarity Tool is a private, interactive tool that opens in your web browser on any phone, tablet or computer. Answer the questions privately and your score and basic results are calculated instantly. There’s nothing to submit and no waiting for someone else to interpret your answers.
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Yes. Your answers stay with you. You don’t submit them to The McMillan Method, and you don’t need to share your score or results with anyone unless you choose to. Your answers stay in your own browser, and the tool is yours to keep and reuse privately.
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Yes. Your Clarity Tool opens in your web browser, so you'll need an internet connection to open it. Your answers still stay on your device and are never sent to The McMillan Method or anyone else.
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The Clarity Tool helps you examine the evidence, identify patterns and get your score. The companion Score Guide takes you deeper, helping you understand what your score may mean, what to pay attention to and practical options for what to do next. Both are yours to keep, and you can return to them whenever you choose.
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No. Clarity Tools aren't therapy and they don't diagnose you or anyone else. They're evidence-based educational tools designed to help you step back, examine patterns more objectively and make better-informed decisions about your relationships and situations.
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Sometimes clarity confirms what you already suspected. Sometimes it reveals something you weren't expecting. A Clarity Tool doesn't tell you what decision to make. It helps you see the patterns and evidence more clearly so you can decide what they mean for you and what, if anything, you want to do next.
But He Says He Loves Me
Paperback / eBook
Books by Dr. Dina McMillan
But He Says He Loves Me — Audiobook
Available in audio
A Quick Reference Guide to Abusers' Strategies and Tactics
Fascination with the Devil
eBook