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See clearly. Choose wisely. Live better.
When something doesn't feel right, guessing rarely helps. Get a clearer picture of what's actually happening — so you can decide what to do next.
Private. Interactive. Quick. Simple. Yours to keep.
Purchase a Clarity Tool and receive your own interactive digital file, with scoring and basic results built in. Complete it privately, get your score instantly, and see what it means — no submitting your answers, no waiting for a response, and no need to share your results with anyone unless you choose to do so.
Want to understand your score? Add a Score Guide for a clearer explanation of your results, practical next steps and guidance on what to do with what you discover. It’s also completely private and yours to keep.
Ready to go deeper than the score? Explore a McMillan Method Insight Edition™ for a fuller examination of the patterns, assumptions and important distinctions that scores alone can’t reveal. Each downloadable edition can accompany its related Clarity Tool or stand alone as a valuable resource—and it’s yours to keep and revisit.
What People Are Saying About the Clarity Tools
People who've used the Clarity Tools describe what they discovered — and what changed once they could see their situation more clearly.
“I knew the relationship had serious problems. I didn't know it was this bad — or that there was something I could do.”
— Clarity Tool user
“I'd noticed a change but wasn't sure what it was, or who was causing the friction. Now I do. And now that I see it, it's pretty obvious.”
— Clarity Tool user
“I expected the test to take longer and be more intrusive. It was quick, and I didn't feel pressured. Now that I know what's wrong, I can consider whether it's something I can — or want to — fix.”
— Clarity Tool user
“This tool helped me close the door on a relationship that didn't work. I realized how much effort I'd wasted on something that wasn't going anywhere.
— Clarity Tool user
“I've known this person for a long time. I thought he was a close friend. It was interesting to find out I was wrong. I've been carrying the relationship for a while.”
— Clarity Tool user
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
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Each Clarity Tool is an interactive digital file you download and keep. Answer the questions privately and your score and basic results are calculated instantly within the file. There's nothing to submit and no waiting for someone else to interpret your answers.
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Yes. Your answers stay with you. You don't submit them to The McMillan Method, and you don't need to share your score or results with anyone unless you choose to. The file is yours to keep and reuse privately.
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No. Once you've downloaded your Clarity Tool, you don't need an internet connection for normal use. The scoring and basic results are built directly into the file, so you can use it privately on your own device.
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The Clarity Tool helps you examine the evidence, identify patterns and get your score. The companion Score Guide takes you deeper, helping you understand what your score may mean, what to pay attention to and practical options for what to do next. Both are interactive digital files you download, keep and can return to whenever you choose.
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No. Clarity Tools aren't therapy and they don't diagnose you or anyone else. They're evidence-based educational tools designed to help you step back, examine patterns more objectively and make better-informed decisions about your relationships and situations.
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Sometimes clarity confirms what you already suspected. Sometimes it reveals something you weren't expecting. A Clarity Tool doesn't tell you what decision to make. It helps you see the patterns and evidence more clearly so you can decide what they mean for you and what, if anything, you want to do next.
But He Says He Loves Me
Paperback / eBook
Books by Dr. Dina McMillan
But He Says He Loves Me — Audiobook
Available in audio
Brief Overview of Abusers' Strategies and Tactics
Fascination with the Devil
eBook