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Is this normal, or is it a pattern? Abusers use the same moves again and again: how they choose who to target, how they win trust fast, and how they gain and keep control. This illustrated guide from social psychologist Dr. Dina McMillan shows you each one clearly, so you can recognize it early, in your own relationship or in the life of someone you love.
Based on 25+ years of research, including interviews with more than 4,500 survivors and 700 abusers. Revised and expanded edition, October 2026.
Instant download. 101-page PDF, private and yours to keep. Read it on your phone, tablet or computer.
The perfect companion to the Unmasking the Abuser™ Clarity Assessments.
Is this normal, or is it a pattern? Abusers use the same moves again and again: how they choose who to target, how they win trust fast, and how they gain and keep control. This illustrated guide from social psychologist Dr. Dina McMillan shows you each one clearly, so you can recognize it early, in your own relationship or in the life of someone you love.
Based on 25+ years of research, including interviews with more than 4,500 survivors and 700 abusers. Revised and expanded edition, October 2026.
Instant download. 101-page PDF, private and yours to keep. Read it on your phone, tablet or computer.
The perfect companion to the Unmasking the Abuser™ Clarity Assessments.